How being thankful changes your brain and improves your health
- Jacqui Low

- Jun 5
- 5 min read
The simple act of feeling grateful can significantly improve your mental, emotional, and physical health. Research shows that practicing gratitude regularly is linked to improved wellbeing, lower stress, lower depression risk, and even better sleep quality.

Do you feel constantly stressed, overwhelmed, or mentally exhausted? Many of my clients report living in a cycle of focusing on what’s going wrong, whether it’s work pressure, family commitments, financial pressure, health issues, or everyday challenges.
As humans we are wired to be alert to possible dangers, so we are naturally more aware of things going wrong than things going right. The problem is that over time, this stress can take a toll on your body, affecting your sleep, energy levels, and your ability to regulate emotions.
But what if one simple practice could help you feel calmer, more grounded, and more at peace?
Gratitude and thankfulness are powerful yet often overlooked tools for improving health and wellbeing. Backed by research, these practices can help break the stress cycle, improve sleep, and support emotional resilience.
In this article, we’ll discuss:
The science behind gratitude and health
How stress impacts your body
How kinesiology supports emotional regulation
Simple ways to practice gratitude daily
One of the biggest contributors to poor health today is chronic stress.
What is causing the issue?
The brain is naturally wired with a negativity bias, meaning it focuses more on threats and problems than positive experiences. While this once helped humans survive, it now keeps many people stuck in a constant state of stress.
When this happens, the nervous system stays activated, often referred to as the fight-flight response. Over time, this can lead to:
· Anxiety and emotional overwhelm
· Poor sleep quality
· Fatigue and low energy
· Muscle tension and pain
· Reduced immune function
Research shows that stress, anxiety, and depression are strongly linked to sleep disturbances, while positive traits like gratitude can help reduce these effects.
Without intervention, this becomes a cycle where fearful thoughts lead to stress, which damages your health, which leads to further negative or fearful thoughts, and the cycle continues on.
This is where gratitude can play a powerful role.
Practicing gratitude does more than shift your mindset - it creates measurable changes in the body and brain.
Research shows that gratitude is associated with:
Greater emotional wellbeing
Improved sleep quality
Reduced risk of depression
Better cardiovascular health markers
From a neuroscience perspective, gratitude activates areas of the brain associated with emotional regulation, reward, and decision-making. It also stimulates the release of feel-good chemicals such as dopamine and serotonin, which support mood and relaxation.
Gratitude also helps regulate the stress response by supporting the nervous system to shift out of fight-flight into a more relaxed state.
The American Psychological Association also highlights that gratitude is closely linked to resilience and overall wellbeing, helping people cope more effectively during difficult times.
In simple terms, gratitude helps rewire your focus from what’s wrong to what’s working, helping you to create a healthier emotional, biochemical and physical state.
How kinesiology helps with stress and wellbeing
While gratitude is powerful, it can sometimes feel difficult, especially if your body is already overwhelmed by stress.
This is where kinesiology offers an effective and supportive approach to regulating the nervous system.
Kinesiology works holistically with the body’s nervous system and energy systems to identify stress imbalances and restore balance. Instead of just changing thoughts, it helps to identify and release stress patterns stored in the body.
In relation to gratitude and wellbeing, kinesiology can:
Regulate the nervous system and reduce chronic stress
Release emotional blocks that make positivity feel difficult
Improve mind-body awareness
Support emotional balance and resilience
Help gratitude feel natural rather than forced
When your body is more relaxed and balanced, it becomes easier to access positive states like appreciation, calm, and connection.
Practical gratitude exercises for better health
Here are simple, effective ways to start using gratitude to improve your health:
1. Try a “Gratitude Pause”
Pause for a moment and notice something positive happening right now.
Focus on your senses:
· What can you see?
· What can you hear?
· What feels calming?
This helps shift your nervous system into a relaxed state.
2. Reframe Negative Situations
When something stressful happens, ask:
· What can I learn from this?
· Is there something I can appreciate here?
Learning to appreciate even the smallest things helps to build emotional resilience and break the stress cycle.
3. Express Appreciation to Others
Is there someone you could thank? Take a moment to thank them with a message, a conversation, or even silently.
Gratitude strengthens relationships and supports emotional wellbeing, which are key factors in overall health.
4. Practice Gratitude Before Sleep
Before going to bed, reflect on something positive from your day.
This can help calm the mind and improve sleep quality, which is closely linked to stress levels.
5. Share one thing you are thankful for with us 😊
We have started work on the tree of gratitude in the clinic…. I’m inviting clients at the end of their session to write down one thing they are grateful for. The tree will be in our window shortly so if you’re passing by remember to have a look for it. You’re also invited to comment and share one thing you are grateful for.
As a kinesiologist I am constantly grateful to my clients who show up and embrace the lessons delivered up by our sessions. What a privilege it is to do this work and connect with such a wonderful bunch of humans.
Sometimes gratitude feels out of reach
While gratitude is a powerful tool, it may feel challenging if you are dealing with deeper emotional stress or burnout. Please be kind to yourself and consider seeking support if you experience:
Persistent stress or anxiety
Difficulty sleeping
Feeling stuck in negative thinking
Emotional overwhelm
Kinesiology can help identify and release underlying stress patterns, making it easier to experience calm, balance, and positive emotions. There are also several organisations in Australia that have been established to help people facing tough challenges (see the list below).
Gratitude and thankfulness are simple yet highly effective ways to improve your health naturally.
By shifting focus away from stress and negativity, gratitude supports:
Better mental health
Improved sleep
Reduced stress
Greater emotional resilience
It also just makes life a better experience. When you feel better, you do better and the result is you experience a better life. And when you are living your best life, that ripples out into the world and makes the world a better place – which gives you more to be thankful for … and the upward spiral of feeling better and therefore being more thankful has begun.
Research consistently shows that gratitude contributes to overall wellbeing and may even support long-term health outcomes. What are you most thankful for today?
If you’re feeling stressed, overwhelmed, or in need of a little extra support, kinesiology can help. Book your session today and start feeling calmer, less stressed and more joyful.
Note
If you, or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call 000.
If you are experiencing distress or are seeking mental health support, please contact one of the following services:
Lifeline: 13 11 14 or lifeline.org.au
Beyond Blue: 1300 22 46 36 or beyondblue.org.au
13YARN: 13 92 76 (for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people)
Kids Helpline: 1800 55 1800 or kidshelpline.com.au
Headspace: 1800 650 850 or headspace.org.au
ReachOut: reachout.com
SANE Australia: 1800 18 SANE (1800 187 263) or sane.org
Suicide Call Back Service: 1300 659 467
Medicare Mental Health: 1800 595 212 or medicarementalhealth.gov.au

Comments